Do you want to look attractive?
Do you want to impress your crush? 😏😏
So you have only some seconds to make that killer first impression.
After conducting research and through practical experiences, I bring five tips that you can apply and impress anyone you want.
Are you ready to become attractive?
1. Aura Matters
SRK, the king of Bollywood, when he enters a room, and you observe his personality and aura, it’s unique.
This is not because of his acting but because of his personality.
When he enters a room, his smile and outfit are always impeccable.
Even if he talks to you, you’ll feel like chatting with him, too, and feel comfortable in his presence.
Aura is the energy that we can feel from a person.
Has this ever happened to you?
That you attended a party, and you met a lot of people.
But the vibe of only some people matched your vibe. There’s a reason behind this.
When your aura is negative, your first impression can be negative, too.
Your aura is a significant part of your personality.
And it is very important for you to vibe with the other person. Always keep your aura positive and happy.
People will feel like approaching you first, initiating the conversation.
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2. Appearance “Wear What You Want”
Appearance doesn’t mean that you have to use expensive or designer things.
You can look good even in your Saraojini Market clothes.
How? Let me tell you.
If you know which type of clothes suit you and which clothes you feel confident, this is enough to make an excellent first impression in front of the other person.
Even after becoming so wealthy, Steve Jobs, the founder of the Apple company, used to wear his typical turtlenecks.
Because it used to suit him and he felt confident.
Always wear clothes that make you feel stylish but also comfortable.
Your comfort is the most important.
If you’re not comfortable, your body language may be restricted, and the other person might get a confused and negative vibe.
According to scientific studies, colours trigger your emotions.
Whether it’s your first job interview or your first date.
Colours make a significant difference in your first impression.
For example, if the red colour suits you and you’re going on your first date, you should wear red.
But if you’re going on a job interview, then stick to subtle colours as they make a better first impression.
If you are planning for a date, you must know what to do on your first date, to impress him/her in the first impression.
3. Body language Like a Hero
Body Language plays a significant role in all of our acts.
Whether you meet someone in real life or behind the scenes, your body language says a lot about you.
According to scientific research, 80-90%meaning of lies in the non-verbal part.
You can make a memorable first impression in a casual or professional environment with a slight smile, medium hand expressions, and straight body language.
Handshake is a significant factor, too.
If you have a weak handshake, you feel like you’re not confident or uninterested in talking.
Another important thing that people forget is ‘Eye Contact’.
You might’ve noticed that when you’re talking to someone and they start seeing you, you feel like they are not interested in talking to you.
Whenever you are talking to someone, maintain good eye contact, which is very important.
But that doesn’t mean you keep staring at someone; you don’t want to creep anyone out.
Balanced eye contact is essential.
4. Know How To Talk
If you’re already talking to someone, you’ve developed a good feeling, but you blurt out something weird or wrong.
Due to this, your whole first impression may go wrong.
Your impression will be bad lifelong because of that one mistake.
Whoever you’re talking to, charm them, make them feel special so that they remember you throughout their life.
If you want to show somebody that you’re enthusiastic and excited to meet them, taking the initiative is necessary.
Talk to them and set up a time, set up a place so that they feel that you care about the details.
Imagine meeting someone for the first time, and you start expressing your strong political opinions, and they disagree with them.
Then this can make your vibe very negative.
When you’re meeting someone for the first time, it’s better to avoid topics like religion and politics.
Just the way it’s essential to talk and have a conversation, it’s just as important to listen.
So, if someone asks you a question, listen to it carefully and give a short and accurate answer.
You don’t have to tell them a story.
Whether you’re in a professional environment or casual, whoever you meet, leave them with a good smile, and tell them that you felt perfect after meeting them.
5. The Voice Secret
Studies show that firmness in your voice leads to confidence.
Amitabh Bachchan’s iconic voice in films like Shehenshah and Agneepath gives you an excellent and unique impression.
Your voice can make your personality very interesting.
Many studies prove that your voice is an instrument.
And you should know how to use it in the right way.
When you breathe from your diaphragm or your stomach, your voice can be deep, making your voice more vocal.
It often happens that you start saying many things at a time.
This should never happen.
Don’t speak too fast, and make sure that you’re understood clearly.
If your voice has an extra firmness, you may sound overconfident, which can be a huge turnoff.
Modesty is essential.
It is said that ” The first impression is your last impression.”
Lastly, remember all these points.
Don’t overthink it. Just be yourself and go make that killer impression.
Doing those five things can have a deep impact in your life. So, start from your Aura and see the magic.